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Snippets Part III

I have a flexible spending account at work, so as to be able to pay my copays, deductibles, and suchlike with pre tax dollars. Late last year, I noticed that the card by which such expenditures were paid for, was getting declined. I assumed that I had spent all the money and thought no further of it.

Then, I began to get messages from the administrators of the account. Finally rousing myself to speak to them, I learned that the card had been frozen, because, I was informed, they required hard copy receipts for 3 or 4 of my expenditures. This included purchases from my optometrist for, oh, gosh, GLASSES, as well as at the podiatrist, for TDW-Mark II’s ingrown toenail.

It puzzled me, Visa, nor Mastercard never had such issues. I assumed that, just like the commercial banks, that the electronic billing that led to the vendor of, say, my gasoline, getting paid, had all the information required, kind of like a grocery store receipt.

Perhaps I was wrong. Or, perhaps, somewhere in this favoured land, folks go to their podiatrist, or their optometrist, when they feel the need for hookers and blow. (I wouldn’t know, myself, and Hunter Biden was not available to comment on that possibility) So, I guess, I will have to remain puzzled.

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Occasionally, I am humbled. Just the other day, I had such an opportunity. The lady bringing the pre school aged children in for whatever their complaint that day, was approximately my age (and, I am by no means of child rearing age. Hell, my youngest grandchild is already in primary school!) She reported, in the course of the conversation, that “My husband and I both got them when they were very, very young.”

Just, matter of fact. No inflection, dry fact.

As I was charting later, I noted that the parent was identified as the grandparent.

So, let’s contemplate that. Some of us are anticipating retirement, with few responsibilities, plenty of free time, and no pressing concerns.

Others, around us, are raising a SECOND family, at our ages, and not flinching.

Some of us are facing demands of duty, and stepping up to those demands, and in doing so are protecting, and nurturing, the most vulnerable among us.

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So This Is No Shit (TINS), There I was Fighting Disease And Saving Lives (FDASL), long, long ago and far, far away.

Well, okay. REEEAAALLLLYYYY!, I was shopping in Farmer Jack, in Da City, on one of my off duty from EMS days. I was pushing my shopping cart down one aisle or another, occasionally consulting my shopping list, and a fellow approached me.

He greeted me. “Hey! I know you!”

I did not just recently develop my aversion to Humanity. I spent years perfecting it. “Uh, no, you don’t, sir.”

He, on the other hand, was undeterred. “No, I know you! You work for the fire department!”

“You have the wrong guy!”

“No, really! I remember you  You saved my brother’s life!”

“Yep! That’s me! That’s how I spend my days! How is your brother?”

5 thoughts on “Snippets Part III

  1. Certainly “hookers and blow” are in someone’s budget somewhere. Although, they should be separate line items to avoid bookkeeping confusion.

    RE raising a second batch of offspring: Please, dear god, keep my offspring and grand offspring happy and healthy and not dependent on me. Or at least let me die before them to release their inheritance.
    “I know you” “No, you don’t” “Why, yes, that was me!” Nice pivot. 🙂

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    1. Thank you for visiting.

      Ref grand-parenting: sometimes, I am simply humbled by the way some folks matter-of-factly accept responsibilities. I simply want to recognize those, that do so.

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  2. Working Foster Care in “ da city” saw a lot of grand parents, retirement age, stepping in to raise grand kids, great grands. Some did ok till the kids became teens then it got too tough.

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  3. FSA’s have to be able to document that the expenditures meet the requirements for spending tax-free dollars. So they often require detailed receipts that spell out the exact service or equipment that was being purchased. Your basic credit card transaction doesn’t cover that.

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  4. Thanks, that clarifies things. So, NOW, I get to deal with the snark-kharma for being a smart ass, when the FSA folks were only doing what the IRS tells them that they have to do, in order for the purchases to, indeed, be nontaxed.

    Figures. ANOTHER lesson in humility!

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